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October 23, 2009There is not enough space nor time to truly describe the impact of suddenly losing Rabbi Loeb. It feels as if even my words are too small and insignificant, to properly honor this once in a lifetime, larger than life presence.
Rabbi Loeb not only talked the talk, he also walked the walk, in addressing social injustice, interfaith relationships, and the inclusion of all Jews in our religious community. He had the courage to stand up for what he felt was right and fair, knowing that he could be faced with opposition from some of his own congregants. He always spoke up for the Jews that felt disenfranchised within their own community, because others viewed them as being different.
Several years ago, he conducted a Jewish commitment ceremony in Beth El’s beautiful Gorn Chapel for two Jewish women. He was kindly joined by both Cantors Thom King, and Rabbi Steven Schwartz. It was the first known commitment ceremony in a Conservative congregation and sparked the attention of many other Conservative rabbis as articles quickly appeared in several Conservative rabbinical magazines across the United States.
Although several of our board members vehemently opposed Rabbi Loeb’s decision, he never backed down, even when his decision was an emotional and unpopular one. In fact, he led the ceremony with grace and respect and in a loving and caring way. He brought Beth El forward, as a progressive and inclusive congregation.
Mark Loeb made me proud to be a Beth El congregant, as he was the epitome of social justice and integrity in a religious leader. And yes, I stood proudly beside Rabbi Loeb when he led that ceremony for my eldest daughter and her partner, as I watched the morning rays of sun shine in to Gorn Chapel, surrounded by loving friends and family.
Yes, Rabbi Mark Loeb left Baltimore and the world a better and more loving place. I will greatly miss him and what he stood for, as there will never be another leader quite like him.
Dr. Patti Friedman
Baltimore